I hope that you are well. Happy Thursday to you. I hope that the week has been treating you well. I am super excited about the weekend. Particularly because I have tons of Virgo birthday's coming up. Special birthday shout out to my little sisters Stephanie and Kierra Monet, stepdad Michael and my bestie Maranda. Happy birthday to all you Virgos out there!!! The Scorpios are coming for you - but remember there is none better than a CANCER!!! Ha! So this weekend I'll be

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Heeeey BITB Family! I hope that you are well. Welcome to the new BlackintheBay.com. I am back and ready to serve you even better than before. I took a hiatus to get this family life thing going. Yes my son is already 1.5 yrs. old and I am still learning. I imagine that learning part is for life! I certainly thank you all for still checking on me and encouraging me to keep Black in the Bay going. It truly makes me feel like my BITB family has my back. Although I don't t

Is your sex life poppin’? Yes, we are openly discussing sex. All of you sensitive, shy folks might want to exit. We won’t get raunchy, but you know how I am. I keep it all the way real with my family. Sex is good for your physical and mental health. It may not always work out for the emotional you – if the situation isn’t right. Let’s go ahead and get this out of the way. Yes, it is better if you are married with a poppin’ sex life. We know that. But the reality is that every

The best part of my life at this time is being comfortable. That’s right – I am not about “that life” anymore. What life you may ask — that 4″ stiletto or high heel life. I have turned into a complete wedge wearer. I need to buy some stock in Aerosoles, that’s how much of my money they get. When I was younger, I used to put on my heels and I was hurting – thinking “Oh honey, it hurts to be beautiful!” Oh how I’ve learned that this isn’t true. It doesn’t have to hurt to be

Soooo – dating after divorce. This is such a hot topic because unfortunately marriages don’t last like they used to. There are so many blended families. I come from one. Recently, my friends and I were having a conversation about dating. We realized that as we (women) get older, it is more likely for us to meet a man/woman that has been married or has children. When we were younger, I said I wouldn’t date someone who was previously married or had children. I wanted to b